Late(r) in Time

I wrote the words below a year ago today. Add a year to all the time spans mentioned in the first paragraph, and take out the dread of Christmas this season, and much of the sentiment below still rings true.

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In many ways, I’ve been dreading this Christmas season. Yet another year has come and gone, and I am still not pregnant. I am certainly not celebrating baby’s first Christmas. Two years have passed since Aaron and I sat in our car, stuck in a snowstorm on the way to West Virginia, and talked dreamily about how next year we’d probably be a family of three for the holidays. A year has passed since I thought that despite the disappointments of 2005, surely I would at least be pregnant by the end of 2006. I dare not hope for 2007. And not only is Christmas a painful reminder of the children we do not yet have, it is a season focused on the holiness of a birth. We tell and re-tell the amazing story of a virgin who conceived, for goodness’ sake. I love the story, believe it with all my heart, but yet there is something about that miracle that can bring a small ache to my infertile soul.

So I dreaded Christmas this year. But God has mercifully given me a new measure of joy, instead of the heartache I anticipated. My circumstances are still difficult, my trial is not over, my temptations still press in. Yet I find myself singing. As we sang “Hark the Herald Angels Sing” in church a couple weeks ago, the Spirit illuminated to me the words, “Late in time behold him come, offspring of a virgin’s womb.” At first, I felt that pang, but then I really thought about those lyrics. Though he was suddenly and unexpectedly conceived (from a human perspective), Christ’s birth was long awaited. A barren world yearned for centuries for the Messiah to come. Thousands lived and died, hoping for the birth of a Savior, trusting God’s promise of a Redeemer. Human hearts were sick with sin and deferred hope. Then, oh miraculous act of love, God became man, took on flesh as a tiny infant. Immanuel. God with us. God with us in our deepest suffering. God with us to rescue us from his own wrath against our sin. God with us to give us himself.

This month, every time I think of the anguish of the past couple of years and the anxiety about the upcoming year, I remember. “Late in time behold him come.” My years of waiting to conceive are small in comparison to the centuries that the world waited for the Savior to be born. My suffering – though still weighty – is infinitely lighter because I live after that birth, after Christ bore the burden of my sins. I am waiting for a baby, but I am not waiting for a Redeemer. I trust and hope that I will see my child’s face one day; I know with certainty that I will see my Lord’s face in heaven.

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4 responses to “Late(r) in Time

  1. Lauren

    That’s incredibly beautiful. Thanks.

  2. Lauren

    Also, thanks so much for sharing your previous posts on IVF (in your comment on my blog.) Your words hold a lot of wisdom. I ordered the Infertility Companion today–looks to have a lot of biblical advice about IF procedures.

  3. Elaine

    I can relate to so many of those emotions. What was once the happiest time of year for me, seems so heart breaking now. You spoke it so sweetly and gently when you said that something about the virgin birth saddens us in the infertile world.

  4. Heather

    thank you for re-posting this. i needed to read this today. ‘late in time’…i will behold him come. and though my/our dream is deferred, our salvation is not. praise Jesus!

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